Dating profiles are always a pain to create, but you’ll never get anywhere on a dating website if you don’t have one. When you are a married person and using a dating website in search of casual sex, things can get a little more complicated. There’s a lot to consider that goes into making a profile, and most of them are pretty common sense. Make sure that you sound open and that you want to be on the website, first of all. You will always catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Next make sure to avoid cliched phrases and sentiments, as these will make you sound like a parrot or a broken record who isn’t genuine about their feelings. Here are a few other things to think about when making a profile and including your married status.

#1) Good, Current Photos

Use photos of yourself alone that are current and not blurry or from a weird angle. It may be tempting to use old photos where you looked a little better and were a few years younger, but that is not going to help you start up any kind of good affair once the person meets you in real life. Even if you aren’t at your peak or are having a kind of rough month, keep your photos current. It will show an openness and honesty which is appealing, and it will help get things moving when people start to show interest. If you have children, don’t post pictures of yourself with them. Seeing someone with a ‘happy’ family might turn some people away, as certain individuals have problems with guilt when they feel like they are helping to wreck a good thing that you have going. And absolutely never post a photo of your spouse. It’s the same principal as never posting pictures where you are with your ex and while it isn’t the same thing, it is in a similar area. Try to make your pictures alone or with friends.

#2) Be Up Front With Your Status

Don’t hide the fact that you are married. Being open and honest with your lover is the easiest way to keep the affair contained and secret. If they know everything and are fully informed, there is far less chance of a secret spilling. It might make some people shy away once they are aware that you are married, but that just means that it wouldn’t be a good idea to start a relationship with them in the first place. The most fun and interesting lovers are often ones that are drawn to the challenge and interest of someone married, and there is a fun time to be had with the people who are gutsy enough to approach you anyway. Finally, it isn’t like your spouse is going to find out that you are on there, unless they too are on the website, in which case you should have a discussion about your relationship.

#3) Ask A Question Straight Off

You want to engage the people who read your intro and look at your profile. No one wants a lump for a lover, so be proactive and ask, nicely, for people to answer a cute little question in your inbox. These questions should be lighthearted and easy to answer, but not too flat. You want to be able to get a gage of what the interested part is like, and you also want to make them feel welcome. A question asking what their hobbies are or what kind of movies they like is a great way to get information and really start communication. It will also make you stand out from the crowd full of cliches that are often found on dating websites. Don’t go super dirty right off the back, or you’ll seem like a horny college student that is only after a quick screw or wants masturbation fodder. Keep it subtle, and keep it interesting.

#4) Work the “Forbidden” Angle

Nothing is more appealing than the naughty, forbidden angle that you are able to work through your status as being married. The more you can convey your desire and your playful, dangerous way of going through life and relationships, you are sure to draw a crowd. Naughtiness is something that many people really like to think about and act on when they are presented with it. There are people who cheat because they feel like a rescuer from a bad family, and some like the feeling of taking things from others. Depending on what kind of relationship you want to cultivate, you can broadcast certain elements of your personality and motives and see results very quickly. The more unique and stand out your personal profile is, the more people will remember you and the better your information will be spread out. The most important part is to take your time making it and always remember to avoid cliches.

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