Advance Tips For Getting Your Casual Sex Partner Off
The hardest part about being with casual sex partner is knowing what is going to get them off. Sure, there are some generalities that women have about what will induce an orgasm, but each woman is very different as are the ways in which they are led to orgasm. If you are with someone new, it is always difficult to try and find the right spot without finding all the wrong ones. You don’t want to seem like you are all thumbs, but when you go to the first “go to” that you know and it doesn’t seem to be working, you can be at a loss about where to go from there. There are many ways to find the woman’s orgasmic zone; you just have to have some sort of map to follow. These are some advanced tips for getting off your new casual partner.
Be cautious
The mistake that most men make is that they go for the goods right off the bat. Women don’t like to have men go for the hot spots right away. They need to be warmed up and there needs to be some lubrication before you just go in for the kill. If you want to find the right spot go about it slowly. Start on the outside of the clothes and then move in closer. Each step you take will get you closer to the hot spots, but you have to earn your way in so that it doesn’t seem too abrasive. If you go right in it can feel threatening to a woman, which is the last thing you want to make sex feel like with a casual partner.
Listen to her noises
Even if she does not command you verbally about where to go and what to do, her breath is saying it all. If you listen closely, her breathing will begin to get more rapid with breaks in between when you are close to the zones that will have her orgasming. It is sort of like a game of getting warmer. Each time you get warmer to the spot she likes her breathing will increase. If you back off, or go the wrong way, her breathing will probably stop for a moment as if to say, “Hey, get back here”. You don’t have to be a woman whisperer, but you do have to learn to listen to the cues that she is sending to you non-verbally.
It is all about the motion
If you start off slowly and build up you will most likely be able to feel her getting into the rhythm. Most women need to have rhythmic motion to get off. There is a right way and a wrong. If you don’t continue on with the rhythm you are going to throw her off. Just like finding the right spot, when you get her to start gyrating along with you, you know that you are on the right course to orgasmville. If she enjoys a motion make sure to stick with it. Even if it isn’t the right motion for you, if you wait just a minute and let her get off she will likely return the favor.
More sensation is always good
Using many sensation and erogenous zones is a good way to get her off. Most women need clitoral stimulation, but others need other types of stimulation as well. Make sure to touch her nipples behind her ears and all the other places that women love. It will get her senses in overdrive and make it more likely that she will be able to get off. The more sensations you can present to her, the greater the intensity of the orgasm you will bring on.
Just because you think you know a woman does not mean that you know every woman. If you are having a casual sexual encounter and you are being kind enough to worry about her satisfaction, allow her to be your guide. If you go in thinking you already know you could run the risk of making all the wrong moves. If that happens, your sexual experience is not going to be as good as it could be, and definitely neither will be hers.