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Holiday gift giving, birthdays or just because, sex toys are fun gift to give your sex buddy. It is not only a funny thing to do but it is something that brings you closer together and gives you both a lot of enjoyment. The key is to make sure it isn’t the only gift you give her and that it is something she wants. Even if your sex life is super-hot, she won’t want a dildo as her only gift. Choose a sexy toy for your sex buddy that correlates to your sex life. What games do you play? What positions do you like? What fantasies do you act out? All these things can help you choose the perfect toy for your sex buddy.

Vibrators are the Staple of the Sex Buddy Toy Chest

Everyone needs a vibrator. They are the staple item that every sex toy chest should have. They can be used for a variety of fun games as well as a massager for sore muscles out of the bedroom. One third of American women own a vibrator. Studies have shown women who use a vibrator experience enhanced sex both alone and with a partner. Strangely enough, the vibrator was invented two centuries ago and it was meant for the purpose of bringing sexually frustrated women to orgasm as a medical practice. Women who suffered from such a hysteria were subjected to a vibrator session down at the local doc’s office. While popular society thought women did not and should not enjoy sex, doctors had discovered women had healthy libidos and prescribed regularly masturbation to relieve the ‘symptoms’ of hysteria. They come in all types of sizes, colors and shapes. Some have different speed settings and are made from softer, more pliable material. Prices run anywhere from a few dollars to over a hundred.

Massage Oils and Candles

Don’t count out these little beauties. You may not immediately think of them as sex toys for our sex buddy but they play an integral part of the sexual experience with a sex buddy. Setting the mood is not just for movies and porn. It is a real thing that makes sex so much better even if it is casual sex with a trusted sex buddy. Rubbing in flavored and scented massage oil is an added benefit to regular sex. The eroticism of touch and tasting each other’s skin makes the sex that much more exciting when it finally happens. Pleasing scents in the air help stimulate parts of the brain and also aid in calming. The practice is called aromatherapy and it can be used to heighten sexual awareness and deepen the erotic experience. Scented candles not only fill the air with a delicious, inviting scent, but the candlelight illuminates the room just enough to encourage romance.

Ben Wa Balls – The Ultimate Sex Buddy Sex Toy

Ben Wa Balls have been used for hundreds of years by women to strengthen their pelvic floor and tighten vaginal muscles. They are also used during masturbation. Women insert them into their vagina and by sitting up and rocking back and forth they are able to reach orgasm. Squeezing the vaginal walls and loosening them along with the rocking motions stimulates the clitoris. Some vibrate and have a string to help pull them out. Most are stainless steel or coated in a soft polymer. During sex, their partner inserts the balls and sensually rubs the vagina. It’s a great sex buddy gift because she can use it alone but also with you.

Games are Sex Buddy Toys Too

Sex games aren’t just insertable, suitable or edible. Some are just plain old games with dice, cards or gameboards. Get yourself and your sex buddy a set of dirty dice and let the games begin.- List of fun sex games – Each side of the dice is printed with a naughty task you or your sex buddy must accomplish. Other games use cards with sex positions printed on them or silly actions that lead to fun sex.

Sex toys are a fun gift for your sex buddy. They help you enjoy your sexy time together and keep it exciting. Just make sure she doesn’t open it in front of family or friends. Those are gifts best opened in private.