Benefits Of A Submissive Sexual Relationship
Thanks to the book 50 Shades of Grey, and pending movie, people around the nation are considering new sexual experiences that they may not have if the book didn’t make it mainstream. If you are wondering if a submission sexual relationship is for you, the answer is that it depends on what you are looking for and what type of personality you have. There are some advantages to the submissive relationship that you can’t get from other sexual encounters. If you are looking for something to really bind you to your lover, and make the communication and trust in your relationship heightened beyond expectation, you may want to give it a try.
What is a submissive sexual relationship
For those of you who haven’t read the novel 50 shades of grey, submissive relationships are one where there is a dominant sexual character and a submissive one. It may sound intimidating, but there are some really great things you can learn about your partner, and yourself, through this type of sexual activity.
It can heighten your trust
There is no greater trust than the trust that can come in a submissive relationship. You have to develop complete and utter trust for one another. In these type of relationships you have to turn over your safety and well being, and place it into the hands of your lover. You have to trust that the decisions that they make about your treatment are going to be made in love and what are best for not only themselves and their feelings, but for yours too.
It can cure the “I don’t know what do you want to do?”
If you are constantly in a state of saying, “I don’t care what do you want to do?”, this may be a haven for your relationship. It is nice to once turn over the decision-making to the other individual. If you are someone who has to make all the decisions and take control, this can be a great relief. Letting someone else take the wheel for a while can save the weirdness that can go on in a relationship. If one person normally will not speak up about what they want, this will give them the power to finally voice their likes and dislikes. It can be a real learning experience for people who are caught at odds about what to do most of the time.
It is something that ensures both needs are being met
Sometimes one person is being pleased while the other is not. In this type of relationship it is not only the dominant person’s responsibility to take care of their own pleasure, they are responsible for the submissive character as well. That means that both people’s needs are being met without anyone feeling silly about voicing what they need or want. It is also a great way for people to put their own wants and needs aside to allow the other person in their life to come first. If you find that in the relationship one person is usually getting their needs satisfied, it may be a good thing to turn it over and allow them to be responsible for your pleasure as well.
The most intimate thing you can do
A submissive relationship is something that is not so mainstream. If you want to have a sexual experience with your significant other that they have probably not experienced with anyone else, this may be it. It still only involves the two of you, but it may be something that is completely new to you both. Sometimes sharing an experience that is just between you two can bring you closer together as a couple. Being naughty and having something that you keep just to yourself is something that can be a binding experience for you both.
If you want to try something new, a submissive relationship cannot only be thrilling, it can be an exercise in trust and intimacy. Before you engage, make sure that both understand what the rules are and what to expect. Communication is a key to making this a type of encounter that is beneficial and fun for both partners.