Tips For Becoming A Better Kisser
There’s no activity more intimate than kissing. It’s the gateway to arousal and if everything is aligned you’ll experience erectile tumescence within seconds of that first fantastic kiss with a woman you’re into. On the other hand, a bad kisser can be the ultimate turn off, drying her up, keeping your erection from making its appearance, and leaving you both cold. There are a handful of common causes that lead to a bad kiss and they’ll be detailed here.
Bad Breath
At the top of the list of reasons for a bad kiss is bad breath. Whether you snacked on fried onions, suffer from halitosis, or happened to have a particularly dry mouth that day, bad breath will kill your kiss and possibly send her away forever. To keep your breath fresh you should maintain good dental health (brush at least twice a day, floss), watch what foods you eat (garlic and onions are both breath killers), manage any reflux (burping brings up all kinds of stinky stuff from your stomach), and keep hydrated (dry mouth leads to stinky bacteria colonizing on your tongue). In a pinch, cinnamon flavored gum is a great way to kill the bacteria that can make your mouth a stinky place to be.
Aggression Isn’t Good
In porn and sometimes in movies and TV the man is depicted as forcefully kissing his lady. It’s a cheap stand-in for passion, which has little to do with force. Unfortunately, that approach is often a turn off for the ladies in our lives. The girl doesn’t want to feel your lips mashed against hers and she doesn’t want to feel like you’re examining her mouth with your tongue. Instead, she wants it to be gentle and sensual. Tongue action should be gentle and include slight sucking, not a vacuum action. Give her a tight squeeze to bring your bodies together but don’t get rough or make it feel like you’re a boa constrictor working to squeeze the life out of her. If you want to become a better kisser, aggression is not good!
Excessive Saliva is a Messy Turn Off
Saliva tends to be more plentiful in the mouths of men, which often means lots of transference when you’re making out with a girl you dig. That should be avoided, however. She definitely doesn’t want to feel like you’ve transferred a mouthful of spit to her and she doesn’t it all over her lips. Control it! Prior to a make out session drink a glass of water and with it wash down the excess saliva that has gathered in your mouth. While kissing be mindful of saliva that might be gathering and work to keep it down.
You Don’t Use Your Tongue
Tongue kissing is amazing but some guys fail to take advantage of the many splendors it offers. Instead, they stick out their tongue and let it sit there. Just think about how crazy that is! Those guys are missing out on the best part of a kiss! If you happen to be such a fella you need to get into it. If you’re not moving your tongue she’s going to think you’re not into it. If you over think it you’ll screw it up, so instead concentrate on having a good time with it. Let your tongues dances and relish the fun you can have doing so.