How To Ask For Casual Sex
If you’re a man then you’re probably horny all the time. That’s pretty much how it goes for us. Every guy has a way of dealing with that. Some simply squash their desires, busying themselves with other tasks or willing their minds to slowly forget about sex entirely. Most men simply turn to masturbation to relieve their sexual frustrations. That’s a fine way to do it, particularly with the easy availability of online porn to help ease you into a fantasy world and help you get off in the most satisfying way possible. Wouldn’t you rather have sex?
Every guy would probably like to have more casual sex if he could. You don’t have to wish or dream about it anymore though. You can actually make it happen if you really want. First let’s talk about the married men. You wish your wife would just be willing to have sex with you when you want it but you should know that women are a different than men in their sexual desires. She likes sex just as much as you do but she doesn’t feel that crazy drive for it. That means you need to work harder to make her want sex.
First, make sure you aren’t creating any stresses in her life. If you have kids then don’t be a lazy dad and make her do all the work. If you lack money because you’re unemployed or you’re doing a bad job at work and can’t get promoted then fix that. You’ll also need to address any physical issues you might have. If you’re overweight it’s time to hit the gym. If you have chronic bad breath then get it treated, first by changing your diet and second by seeing your doctor if need be. Then it’s time to change the way you approach your wife.
The thing that turns her on the most is feeling desired. You’re probably thinking that you tell her you want sex all the time so she should feel desired, but that doesn’t get the job done. It has to be about more than sex. You have to make her feel like you want her in an animalistic sort of way. Make her believe it. You should compliment her all the time and tell her you love her multiple times a day. You should be physically affectionate, although keep it clean most of the time. Hug her and kiss her as often as you can, including on areas like the neck and ears. Even the smallest bit of physical contact can remind her of sex, too. Just brush her arm when you walk by her or run your hand along her lower back. Give her bottom a quick squeeze, and don’t make it silly.
If you’re not married it’s a little harder, although you can still find plenty of casual sex. You should know by now that using a casual sex dating site is a must. As with the married guys, you need to work to present the best possible version of yourself. There’s really no excuse to not be in decent shape and if you really want lots of sex you’ll get in great shape. It’s worth it. Dress the part of a guy that wants to have sex with lots of ladies, which means dropping the tee shirts and hoodies and putting on something more stylish. Guys like to whine about how they can’t get laid, but those guys are always doing something wrong. You have it in your power to get lots more casual sex, you’re just not doing it. Take charge of your life.