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Sex buddies are for one thing and one thing only; no strings attached sex with someone you consider a bud. They aren’t meant for a long term thing and they certainly aren’t for any kind of romance. People get together in this fashion to avoid the tumultuous ups and downs of relationships. It’s like having your cake and eating it too. Everything a man could want until she starts to expect a little romance. Here is some useful advice on how to be romantic with your sex buddy, or any other girl. you might be dating

Should You? Could You?

Romance is for lovers, people in serious relationships, long term stuff. When the best bud you occasional share a roll in the hay with decides things need to change, a little romance is called for. You have one of two things you can do in response; beat a hasty retreat or try to explain to her what you need out of the relationship.

What’s in it For Me?

There are so, so, many reasons people choose to use a sex buddy in their lives. Sometimes people just can’t find the time with careers and the everyday activities that life is about, to work on a relationship. In other situations, relationships just aren’t what a person wants. They prefer to be alone and date occasionally. Every situation is different with each person. Traditional two person relationships just aren’t for anyone anymore.

With this knowledge in hand, it is easier to explain to your sex buddy what you really need and how you can provide what she needs. It may seem like it would be a hard conversation to start, but if you’re really friends, she will understand and agree. Be honest, be real and be open. If that doesn’t work, go for option two and run like the wind.

So.. What just Happened Here?

Some women are so needy or so entitled they don’t even expect a negative answer to a question. GO Here to read the signs you have a clingy girlfriend. Not only do they not expect it but they won’t accept it either. This may be the day she turns extra psycho, a stalker-ish nut job. At this point, you cut all ties and run. Run like your ass is on fire and don’t look back. She has chosen a different road than you and when both people do not feel the same way, no amount of pity or sympathy can make it better.

Let the Games Begin!

Here’s where things can get tricky, however. There may come a time you’ll have to seek outside help. You might stop by her parents or sisters or cousins house. Explain to them the situation and ask for help. They may or may not be helpful. If not, your next step is to go to the police or campus authorities. It’s even possible you may need a restraining order.

Ah, This Isn’t So Bad

It’s not always misery and pain, though. Often when a sex buddy asks for romance, it could just mean she wants a cuddle after sex or just someone to talk too. There are many sex buddies who really just want to be sex buddies. A little romance could simply be a way of making your time together a little more fun before your time is up for the evening.

The thing to keep in mind is every sex buddy is different. Keeping things open and honest is always the route to less trouble. If it turns into something scary, don’t be afraid to ask for help. Don’t be afraid of the word romance, either. It could mean nothing more than a little more fun and excitement in the bedroom. Sex buddies aren’t that easy to find, so make sure you know what she really wants before you cut and run.

If worse comes to worse, and you have to part ways, it’s best to avoid mutual friends, neighborhood places she may be and maybe even block her from your Facebook and phone. Precaution is your friend in these incidents.

Sex buddies have feelings too so be careful with your choice of words. Don’t try to be a jerk about it. It isn’t like a band-aide and ripping it off quickly is just going to cause negative feelings. Be as kind and open with your conversation as you can.
Don’t Burn Bridges if You Don’t Have Too

If your main goal turns out to be a quick and hasty retreat, try not to let to many people get hurt. You don’t want to make anyone mad at you that you don’t have to. Ending a relationship is always hard, regardless of it’s a friendship, romance or anything else. Taking the least painful way out is always going to give you best results. It gives her a chance to bow out gracefully and retain some self-respect. Treat her like the friend she is.